{"id":8,"date":"2005-01-13T23:21:41","date_gmt":"2005-01-13T23:21:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/2005\/01\/13\/sloooooooowwwwww\/"},"modified":"2005-01-13T23:21:41","modified_gmt":"2005-01-13T23:21:41","slug":"sloooooooowwwwww","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/archives\/sloooooooowwwwww.shtml","title":{"rendered":"Sloooooooowwwwww&#8230;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today I went to Starbuck&#8217;s and hung out with a bagel from Noah&#8217;s next door and a mocha.  Although I was experiencing anxiety about being away from my PC &#8211; I did have my Treo however &#8211; I resisted the temptation to wolf down my bagel and rush back home to finish all the stuff I had to do.<br \/>\nInstead, I savored the calm moment of being there at Starbuck&#8217;s, reading some of my recent magazines that I got this last week, ripping pictures out of them for my coaching process (see my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/coaching\/\">coaching blog<\/a>), and sipping my mocha while listening to my iPod.<br \/>\nSteadily, I enter the realm of &#8220;slowness&#8221;.  I just bought the book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/006054578X\/dshencom-20?creative=327641&#038;camp=14573&#038;link_code=as1\">&#8220;In Praise of Slowness: How a Worldwide Movement Is Challenging the Cult of Speed&#8221; by Carl Honore<\/a>.  I am eager to dig into this book as my life is just so ridiculously full right now and I need to make sure I do not overload myself inadvertently.  I have lots of interests and really need to evaluate what&#8217;s most important, what I&#8217;m really committed to, and what can be done later.<br \/>\nSo many of us veterans of the dot-com years can&#8217;t help but live in the hyper-fast world of information overload and shrinking deadlines and getting it done yesterday.  But yet, we never stop to listen to a friend or my child, really absorb the richness of the world through our senses, or just sit and think deeply about a topic or our lives.<br \/>\nEven now, my favorite moments with friends are just sitting down and having a focused one-on-one conversation with them.  I abhor conversations in group settings; they inevitably boil down to quick snippets of &#8220;how are you?&#8221; and &#8220;what&#8217;s up&#8221; and then that&#8217;s it before you move to the next person.<br \/>\nBack to Starbucks: So I still hit the Send\/Receive button on SnapperMail on my Treo every now and then.  Can&#8217;t break the habit that quickly&#8230;!  But I do know that I am enjoying the relaxed nature of slowing down and plan to do this much more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I went to Starbuck&#8217;s and hung out with a bagel from Noah&#8217;s next door and a mocha. Although I was experiencing anxiety about being away from my PC &#8211; I did have my Treo however &#8211; I resisted the temptation to wolf down my bagel and rush back home to finish all the stuff [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dshen.com\/blogs\/musings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}